Please don't think she is just doing this for kicks. I cried so loudly that our eldest child opened the door to ask what was wrong. Shame for what I was doing — both doing something that was gay, and cheating. I know I was quiet for a long while after she asked if I was okay. That was that. He understands the straitjacket the straight spouse is in: But being with the kids and doing routine things kept me focused on why I was doing this.
When my former husband of nearly 30 years told me he was gay, I prayed to die in my sleep
There just were no more options for us as a couple. To see other guys in similar situations and know I was not alone, and that maybe I could just do this forever. Can you find a way to stay together?
Worse, sometimes the husband suspects, but is unsure … until she checks out of the marriage altogether or even asks for a divorce.
