This is because the pitch of your voice has nothing to do with biology: Although it can be intimidating or scary to ask, it's the only way to truly know someone's sexual orientation. Thanks for letting us know. I have thought back to my own childhood and wondered what it was that kept me alive when I experienced similar treatment. Convinced Submitted by Doug Dittmer on January 24, - 9:
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And here I am, still in love with the sober man he occasionally is, still defending his character, still believing in his potential. This is really the best way to find out if someone is gay and much less offensive than making assumptions about them. A year later the marriage was over. This is because there are no universal signs that apply to everyone all the time.
Again, I'm not prudish, and I enjoy a healthy sex life with my spouse, but I do not think about sex every minute of the day, I don't want to be intimate with anyone I think is attractive any more than I want to try on and purchase every outfit I see that might look good on me or eat every food that might taste good.